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Your Soon to be Wife’s New Best Friend- The Wedding Planner

If, once all aforementioned matters have been resolved, you find you are of sound mind and body, ready to proceed, and prepared financially and emotionally to endure the planning of a wedding, you must acknowledge there is a business of weddings and it is called just...
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Women who Eat are Tres Sexy

Clever Girls- are you bored yet? Don't quit on me now! This is it. The last day and it isn't even educational. Below you will find ways to dazzle your guys with talk of hot coals, grill marks, medium rare plus, fire, heat and of course ways to lure him in. If you...
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Women Help Women? Ha!

I'm often reminded of a book by Susan Faludi called, "Backlash." While it's over twenty-years old, her hypothesis on many different societal realities linger in my mind. One such is where the deep-seated competition among women comes from. I will try to recall, as...
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What You Got Under There?

I was asked by a gentleman who is So Very Clever to comment on what currently is being called the "maxi-dress"- we’ve all seen or worn them. The long, often shapeless dresses- either with straps or without. This particular fashion AND figure conscious guy asked me to...
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What in the HELL are You Doing in There?

OK, Clever Girls- this does not apply to you- but I have to ask the question on every Clever Guy’s mind. What happens from the moment you (So Very NOT Clever ladies) close the car door until the time you are actually in motion, reversing out of a coveted parking...
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What Does Age Have to do With Beauty?

From the dizzying heights of ineptitude falls this statement: “You look good for your age.”Now, how foolish must you be to think this is a compliment in any way? I hear it at least once a day, which means foolishness abounds.   If you were Clever, you would say...
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Well (ness), this is My First New Post in YEARS!

Where have I been? Great question. The past few years I've taken time off to RE articulate the purpose of this blog. Initially, my literary agent asked me to start a blog to test drive content for a book. The book was called, (and still is) The So Very Clever Girls...
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Top 10 Dynamics that will Ship Wreck Your Blended Family

Thank you so much to all the friends who weighed in on this discussion. Since blended families are now the norm, it's important to treat them with great care, lest they fall victim to the even increasing number of failed second marriages. Children are challenging....
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Take the Moron Out of the Oxymoron- Men’s Fashion

OK Clever Guys- I am certain most of these...
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What You Got Under There?

I was asked by a gentleman who is So Very Clever...
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Take the Moron Out of the Oxymoron- Men’s Fashion

OK Clever Guys- I am certain most of these...
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Just Because it’s IN STYLE- Doesn’t Mean it’s the Right Style For You

OK- I received a request last night from a...
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Game Day Turkey Ruebens

Ok, Clever Girls- this is really easy and really...
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Gemini vs. Clever Capricorn- V to Clever Cap

Ok, Clever Tribe- this is how this went down. I...
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Honeymoon’s Over. Now What?

Now, once the honeymoon or euphoric stage of a...
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It’s Just a Ring … Right? WRONG

After years of hit-or-miss dating, you have...
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Just Because it’s IN STYLE- Doesn’t Mean it’s the Right Style For You

OK- I received a request last night from a...
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New Coaches, Indiscretions, Violations- OH MY

It’s official- Brian Kelly is the new coach of...
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New Year’s Yummmm

Ok, Clever Tribe- one of the most Clever Guys I...
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Pointless Left Hand Gestures Commence

The months between November and March are when...
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Prepare to Prepare the Grill- Bring a Bag

If you are arriving late to this series- we are...
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Rock Star Status for the Perfect Gift for Your Guy- Priceless

Ok, Clever Girls- here is the second installment...
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So Very Clever Update and Game Day Grub

Welcome soon to be So Very Clever readers.  I...
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Something Hot for Game Day

Ok- Clever Girls, the taco pie takes five...
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Start Talking Missy

In any social situation, look for an opportunity...
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Strong Women and the Clever Men who Love them

Clever Girl- what is your opinion on men feeling...
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Women who Eat are Tres Sexy

Clever Girls- are you bored yet? Don't quit on...
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Gentleman … Gentle Man- Is One Sufficient?

I don't believe so. I have known the classic gentleman with all the courtly and genteel behavior in public ... though he is anything but a gentle man in private. For this "gentleman" it is nothing more than a show, a bid for applause or acknowledgement and not an...

Women Help Women? Ha!

I'm often reminded of a book by Susan Faludi called, "Backlash." While it's over twenty-years old, her hypothesis on many different societal realities linger in my mind. One such is where the deep-seated competition among women comes from. I will try to recall, as...

THE DRESS- PART ONE

THE DRESS- PART ONE

This title is in is all caps because most brides will put it close to the top of their priority list. I have split this post up into two second- one advise for the Clever Girls who are soon-to-be brides and advice for guys who need to be So Very Clever when...